Steve, What bushings were used when they were rebuilt? The original type use the flexing rubber as the "pivot". The original type bushings are not designed to slide or rotate on the pivot shaft, but are designed with the rubber adhering to both the inner and outer metal. As the wheels move up and down, the rubber is intended to flex, and it's the actual flexing of the rubber that allows the pivoting of the A frame. I am guessing that this is the kind of bushing used in your rebuild. And I am further guessing that when the A frames were installed, the bushing nuts were tightened with the car off the ground and the wheels and A frame extended downward. This would mean that when the car was then placed on the ground, and the weight of the car on the wheels, the bushings were thus put into an already highly flexed state, with the car at rest. And every time you hit a bump and the wheel moved UP, the rubber in the bushing got flexed (twisted) even further, beyond it's max design point. That woulld cause the rubber to become "unglued" from either the inner or outer metal tube or both, with all further pivot action taking place as a friction pivot , quickly wearing out the rubber.
Make sense?
If you use Urathane bushings, they are dsigned to pivot or slide around the inner metal bush and you do not need to have the A frames in the normal rest postition when you tighten the nuts. If you do use Urethane bushings from SS, be sure to grind a bevel or chamfer on the leading edge before you try pressing them into the A frame.
Tom