A larger carb will work better at wide open throttle, but it is the dirveability in regular driving, that would be bad. As you know, some folks will be content with anything, but you and I want for the car to run at peak in all situations.
You are correct, in saying that more grip would begin to break things. That is why I recommend replacing the stock rear end, The little 2.8 V6 will never produce enough torque to be able to break a Ford 8". The Alpine is light enough to keep from breaking the Ford, because the car will move way before the rear end breaks. You will also need to use the bigger Ford U-joints too. I went through several Alpine U-joints, when I had the stock rear end in it, and my engine wasn't as powerful as yours is. My heads didn't have the larger valves.
In my case, more power is better, not only because it is a lot more fun to drive on the street, but because I was a drag racer and wanted the lowest E.T. I could get. I also wanted to surprise a lot of guys on the street. On the street, if you don't have a big enough gun, you see tail lights.
Jose